Wednesday, October 28, 2009
You want the truth? You can't handle the Truth!!!
So I've come to the realization that "Honesty IS NOT the best policy" simply because people can't handle the truth (or atleast what you present to them).
I have gone the Entire summer evaluating my life, I have had to make the hard decisions of what to cut out, meaning habits, lifestyle, and most importantly people.
The problem is, when a person you cut off comes back, and they wonder why you cut them off in the first place, even giving them the lying answer isn't good enough with them.
Plus with my whole pledge on telling the truth and no longer need to lie in my life (since I'm older now), I found out that even telling people the truth people. People can't handle it.
They still flip out, get mad, get sad.
My motto is "If you can't handle the truth, then don't ask me anything" PERIOD.
I'm going to give it to you straight, and I was never that person when I was younger, I was a push over let people run over me, but now i'm going to give it to you straight without feeling an ounce of remorse.
Now don't get me wrong it does suck at the fact that "THE TRUTH HURTS" but would you rather someone lie and you hurt later? or tell the truth and you hurt now?
I can respect people more for telling the truth. Than blantly lying.
Lets be honest, everyone lies (is that an oxymoron?)
I have yet to meet one person who hasnt told a lie....little or big lie, a lie is still a lie.
moving along with it. It just sort of Sickens me now how alot of people lie for no reason.
I mean hell I still do it sometimes, but not on an issue someone wants to knwo, sometimes i'll agree with something or just say yes or no based on if I want to get them out my face.
but Its wild how so much people Want to know the truth, But cant handle the Truth.
why even ask if your going to respond negatively in the first place.
Is there a certain way to deliver the truth (if its on a bad topic) to ease the blow?
I dont know well thats my take on it.
If you want the truth come to me.
If you don't want the truth then dont bother talking to me at all.
Sorry if that seems harsh