Wednesday, October 28, 2009

You want the truth? You can't handle the Truth!!!

So I've come to the realization that "Honesty IS NOT the best policy" simply because people can't handle the truth (or atleast what you present to them).

I have gone the Entire summer evaluating my life, I have had to make the hard decisions of what to cut out, meaning habits, lifestyle, and most importantly people.

The problem is, when a person you cut off comes back, and they wonder why you cut them off in the first place, even giving them the lying answer isn't good enough with them.
Plus with my whole pledge on telling the truth and no longer need to lie in my life (since I'm older now), I found out that even telling people the truth people. People can't handle it.

They still flip out, get mad, get sad.
My motto is "If you can't handle the truth, then don't ask me anything" PERIOD.

I'm going to give it to you straight, and I was never that person when I was younger, I was a push over let people run over me, but now i'm going to give it to you straight without feeling an ounce of remorse.

Now don't get me wrong it does suck at the fact that "THE TRUTH HURTS" but would you rather someone lie and you hurt later? or tell the truth and you hurt now?

I can respect people more for telling the truth. Than blantly lying.

Lets be honest, everyone lies (is that an oxymoron?)

I have yet to meet one person who hasnt told a lie....little or big lie, a lie is still a lie.

moving along with it. It just sort of Sickens me now how alot of people lie for no reason.
I mean hell I still do it sometimes, but not on an issue someone wants to knwo, sometimes i'll agree with something or just say yes or no based on if I want to get them out my face.

but Its wild how so much people Want to know the truth, But cant handle the Truth.

why even ask if your going to respond negatively in the first place.

Is there a certain way to deliver the truth (if its on a bad topic) to ease the blow?

I dont know well thats my take on it.

If you want the truth come to me.

If you don't want the truth then dont bother talking to me at all.
Sorry if that seems harsh

Monday, October 26, 2009


So today is my birthday and this weekend, was great.

I didn't do anything ground shaking (im still on a diet see

But Saturday I went out with my trainer, had some wings steak and a mini pie.

But Sunday I went out with my family Mom Dad and Brother and we ate at RED Robyn!!!!

I pigged out (see my fitness blog for details)

and Honestly I couldn't of asked for a better Present!!!

We aregue and fight alot, but I love every one of them!!! It was a blessing to get all 4 of us at one table to eat and joke and yell at each other!!!

It was just like Old times again!

Very Nostalgic to have that, and I look forward to this being the beginning of a new life for me now that im 24!

I was scared of this age to say at first because I always felt like 24 was when ur considered Old.

But I feel like my life may just now start to begin!

Well Thanks to the followers I have for sticking with me, and keep looking for more of my blogs because I have alot coming soon!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Its been to long! OCT update!!!

I know i know, I said i would have endless blog post not that im working again, and I have like maybe 3 in the past month.
But I promise there coming.

I'm back on facebook, I know I know sue me, I thought I never would go back, but I love my friends.
(I will still never do Twitter)

The blogs are coming...Hello to my new follower
I swear im not a boring pers, just have been busy.

I need a part time job (along with my current job) I'm not stressin for cash, but a little extra will be nice. so I can get out of the united states. and pursue my dream.

well keep up